Criticism-its how you take it

Guys
       Criticism has been a problem to number of people we met and have seen and some times to no one else its you.Even i was having a problem with it but i successfully overcome  it.so i felt that i should help you and make yours feel good and be happy even when listening about ours criticism.
so let me mention some of the points that can help you.

• try to get what others think about you and spoke about you to others.
• Find out the reason behind it and think that why they should have felt about you
• let first understand that who's that person , is he a friend of yours or an enemy
•  if he is your friend then thats a big problem because he is not your friend whos speaking about you but the jealousy about  your success or anything you have achieved is making him to feel like that and you must be aware of such friends.
•  if he is your enemy then that's okay because can't expect good words about you from him even when you have achieved something.he is going to find out bad in it.
• most important is what you get from your critics

    Considering points  one thing you should do is self realization and do that thing which you are lagging in and you feel that quality should be present in you after realizing criticism.
If criticism is absent in your life then you have done nothing in your life so hope that others do criticize you which makes a man to improve himself and try to get more criticism which will get you to a big change in your life .Remember one thing that more you are being criticized means you are on the right track to be successful in your life .hope after reading this many of you would take criticism in a positive way and make yous of it.

Start of Engineering with problems

hey friends ,
         it was a long back in 2008 when i had just completed my 12 and given CET n got average score .that day was filling of CAP round forms for getting admission to engineering.so it was a normal day as usual and me with my friends  had gone to fill and submit that form.it has started around 8 at morning as that college was covering large no of colleges ,i think around 1000 students were there to submit forms.we also joined in the row whos end was not even at reach of our eyes.
     when ours number came to fill form , we all submitted it and just gone for hang out some time because its gone take 2-3 hrs to get confirmation about receiving of form.we had some food and returned to ARC centre ie.college.the authorities were taking names  one by one and giving confirmation regarding form.after some time my friends got theirs and mine was not there even we have submitted at same time.it was around 2.30pm,still we waited till 4pm no result.i was  not getting mine then my friends told me to go home and come with my parents coz they were not listening my problem.After waiting for half an hour we left to home and i returned to college with my elder brother.Now it was 5.30pm and time for submission was over so we approached to respected sir and told my problem and what u guess they all around 12 staff members and me n my bro stared searching for my form from almost 15 big bunches of forms that were submitted from morning.We searched alot and now its 6.30pm.then finally we reached to conclusion that they have lost mine.i was so scared and angry that i was abusing those staff member in my mind and then they called a authority and finally decided to fill my form once more and submit it .thanks to god that i had a extra bunch of documents with me.so they filled my form from office and submitted and given me confirmation after 5 minutes.it was 7.30pm, i was there at college from 7am to 7.30 pm,i thing it was the on which i have ever abused thousand times because of frustration.that all ended with a relief of getting confirmation.so thats how it was wost day for me and that bad luck continuing till date which will be revealed soon.